I’ve long been of two minds on the illnesses involving the Martin and Herzog children, which their parents attribute to raw milk. On the one hand, I appreciate the suffering they and their families went through—I think anyone who has children can appreciate how terrible it must have been. I can also understand the desire by Mary McGonigle Martin and Melissa Herzog to get hard answers, make that final answers, as to what caused the illnesses, and also their frustration about slight changes in the explanations offered by Mark McAfee of Organic Pastures Dairy Co. as to what might have happened.

On the other hand, I sometimes feel as if the whole search for “truth” in these two cases puts raw milk under scrutiny that is way out of proportion to its role in food-borne illness in this country (where raw milk is merely a blip on the radar screen)…and that this blog contributes to that problem. The media don’t do this kind of dissection when listeria in deli meats sicken people, but they do all kinds of head stands when ag officials say listeria was found in some farmer’s raw milk, even when no one got sick.

As I said, I can appreciate the frustration Mary McGonigle-Martin feels over what she sees as variations in Mark McAfee’s explanation of what went on. So I called Mark and raised the issue with him.

Basically, he didn’t deny that his story may have changed a bit in the many re-tellings, but he seemed to say in response that how he explains what happened is irrelevant, since Organic Pastures has never been implicated in the problem.

“After everything is said and done, California accused me, the parents accused me, and nothing was found. Did (Mary’s) child have E.coli 0157:H7? No. So what’s the point? That’s my point. And if you’re going to say I made four kids sick, show me the bacteria” (that connects to Organic Pastures).

He added, “My heart goes out to her (Mary). She has the best of intentions. But the investigators did not find a connection…She is passionately filled with wishful thinking. What can I say?”

To Mark, the entire experience with Mary and Melissa is indicative of a larger cultural problem in the U.S.—our desire to find a culprit for whatever calamity we may be experiencing. “We are one of those countries that must have a diagnosis and figure out who’s responsible for a problem and hang them…Instead of looking at ourselves to build up our immune systems and exercise, instead we try to find ‘them’ and shoot ‘them.’”

He added, “It’s all about getting someone else to pay for your problem. It’s always someone else’s fault.”

He also sees our culture excusing side effects and deaths from drugs, and not being nearly so forgiving for food. The growing problem of illness from disease-resistant bacteria in hospitals “is all excused because drugs cure and foods don’t. It’s the great distraction.”

Is Mary being unreasonable in continually questioning a suspect who’s essentially been cleared by the most intensive investigation the authorities can undertake—authorities, mind you, who came into the investigation wanting more than anything to hang the suspect? Is Mark being unreasonable in not wanting to be held accountable for his answers to accusations of something he’s been cleared of, and instead wanting to talk about the bigger issues?

As Ken Conrad suggests, the state likely has all the information Mary is seeking. That may be the best route for her to take in her search for answers. I wish I had a more practical suggestion, but I don’t.